I’m a female, 23 years old and there’s this guy we’ve been dating for a long time.
It’s a long term relationship it’s been 4 years now that’s if I count from the year we became serious but before these four years we knew each other and we were dating though it was an on and off thing coz, we were never intimate just chatting but also 3 years before we became serious we made out in their cyber and 3 years later we had sex for the first time.
I really love this guy and I know he loves me too and to be honest I was never insecure until I went through his phone didn’t find anything serious but just caught him calling another chick baby and when I confronted him he told me that there is nothing between him and the chick that they are just friends and they were in the same primary school.
Things were never the same for me since the very first time I touched his phone. It’s like I had a head virginity being broken. After sometimes he joined campus and he had this friend, a male friend and because the girl of his best friend was also in the same campus they became friends through his friend.
His friend had no problem with him hanging out with his girl since they were in the same campus and also same class.
He was also cool with him have his girlfriend’s number. But lately have noticed that this chick calls my boyfriend frequently and also found out through the text that she calls my bf babe.
I told my boyfriend that I wasn’t okay with that chick calling him babe and he promised me that he will let her know that I’m not comfortable with that. He told her and the chick stopped calling my bf babe but then, later on, I found some texts also in his phone with that chick and he told me that his friend used his phone to text his girl.
I bought the story but then I’m curious and I suspect that that chick is sleeping with my guy clandestine. I suspect they’re fucking each other, I love this guy a lot and we’ve been through shit together and I don’t wanna lose him for sure.
I know this chick sees that my boyfriend is handsome as compared to her washed-up guy and that’s why she’s constantly hitting on my guy, because my man is hotter than hers.
They are in the same school and that has me worried a whole lot and also she usually has a lot of stories to tell my boyfriend than she has to tell her boyfriend who is my boyfriend’s friend.
I’m hurting and I really don’t want them to keep talking. I want them to cut the connection they have maybe that way I’ll be at peace. Please help me coz at this point it hurt so bad
